Virgos aren’t all shy and introverted. In fact, Virgos (being ruled by Mercury, the planet that heavily influences communication and also rules Gemini) can very well say everything that’s on their mind, with little to no impulse control. True, Virgos (especially later into September) can clam up more than their first deacon brethren, but every Virgo-Libra cusp I’ve met…… Yeah, they’re not exactly “quiet”. It might have even been the Cancer moon that made you more reserved.
So I guess it kind of depends on what you mean by “completely engulfed by my Scorpio Ascendant,” and even more importantly, what you mean by “now as I’m getting older”. If “getting older” means “in Junior year of high school”, then yeah, 100% typical, and it should eventually even out.
Cancerean guys ARE very sweet, they’re wholeheartedly big mushes.
They’re also incredible idealists, even after they get to know someone. They don’t like letting relationships crumble.
Speaking as an 11/28 Sag who dated an 11/5 Scorp, I can tell you that his emotional insecurities will not go away.
In 08, you guys were only 15 (for most of the year), so of course there were issues. But if things are great now, and have been for awhile, what do you need advice with?
There are plenty of Leo out there that are low-energy and all together mellow. It just doesn’t come up as often. Every sign has this opposite, rouge set of personality traits to them. Usually, I’ve found that it correlates with whatever cusp their closest too, but like all zodiac matters, it’s not set in stone. I’d imagine the Leos who are more mellow are closer to Cancer than Virgo or those who are right in the middle. You’d think otherwise because Virgo is kind of stoic on their own, but most Leo/Virgo cusps I know, or Leos/Virgos with lost of the others’ influence, are extremely feisty.
I know lots of people consider Pisces to be the crybabies of the Zodiac, but just like all stereotypes, there’s a lot of truth behind it. I personally cry, like, all the fucking time. I cry because I’m sad, I cry because I’m frustrated, I cry because I’m happy, I cry because I’m moved… All my Pisces friends are like this, and open about it too.
But if you are unfortunate enough to end up with a Pisces with Scorpio influence (like me), or a similar sign like Libra or Aquarius, they’re going to seek revenge. And it will not be pretty.
Pisces and Aquarius couples make an interesting team because of this dynamic. It kind of reminds me of Westley from The Princess Bride. A Pisces man will do everything for you, even when you cast it off as nonsense. They are some of the most overt and honest romantics, and it will sway you in time. Just like Buttercup, you’re already realized just how much of an affect that kind of love can have on you, in all aspects of your being.
So give it a try :)
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